
ER nurse shares dose of
reality with OTHS students
November 9, 2006
Filing into the
Old Town High School gym last Thursday, there was an air of resignation
among the freshman students who had been told to assemble there. Even
though they knew that they were on their way to hear an “anti-drug
presentation,” they had no idea of what to expect or how much of what
they heard would have an impact on their future choices regarding drugs.
Many of them had been to anti-drug presentations before and had been
warned to stay away from drugs and alcohol. But as soon as Linda Dutil
took over the mike, dressed in her green emergency department nurse
scrubs, there descended over the teen-age audience an almost palpable
sense of renewed interest in what she had to say about an old subject. A
lot of that had to do with the fact that Dutil, who works as an ER nurse
in Waterville, speaks from experience about what can happen when young
people take drugs, drink alcohol, or enable their friends to become
involved with substance-abuse.
Dutil comes
out swinging, starting off by announcing to her freshman audience that
she is not there to lecture them or tell them what to do.
“When I was
in school, I went to an assembly where the speaker said, ‘Don’t do
drugs. If you do, you’ll die.’ Well, I’m not here to tell you that. I’m
here to tell you about the results of poor choices that you can make,”
she said.
Dutil spent
the next 45 minutes sharing the excrutiating details of those results,
at times eliciting laughter from her audience, but more often drawing
groans of disgust at the repercussions that come from misusing drugs and
alcohol. She starts out by holding up a pair of scissors as she relates
the story of a girl who was once a patient in her emergency room.
“She was
fifteen years old, and when her boyfriend dumped her, she got very
depressed and went into her mother’s room where she took a pair of
scissors from the top of the dresser,” she said. “She then proceeded to
cut herself. She came into the emergency room with thirty to forty
scissor cuts. She was fine, we gave her antibiotics, and she didn’t die.
But the scars from those scissor cuts won’t go away. They’re something
that she’ll have to explain for the rest of her life.”
Dutil ends
the sad tale by urging the students to seek out people with whom they
can talk about their problems.
“If you can’t
talk to your parents, find someone you can talk to,” she said.
Dutil shares
another story with an even unhappier ending about a boy she refers to as
“Bob.” Bob, she says, was a 15-year-old boy who wasn’t interested in
alcohol until one day when he went to a party at a friend’s house.
“Bob arrives
at his friend’s house, and his friend sticks a shot glass of whiskey in
his hand,” Dutil said. “Bob tried to tell his friend that he wasn’t
there for alcohol, but his friend made a joke out of it. He turned to
the other guys who were there and said, ‘Hey, don’t you think Bob is a
wus?’ And because Bob didn’t want to be called a wus, he started
drinking. And he ended up drinking so much alcohol…in this case,
whiskey….that it poisoned him.”
Dutil goes on
to explain that what many people don’t know about alcohol poisoning is
that one of the things it does to the human body is shut down the
respiratory center. This is what happened to Bob, she says, “and he
died. It was unbelievably sad. It was totally preventable, totally
avoidable.”
As part of
her presentation, Dutil enlists the aide of audience members, as she did
when she called two students to join her last Friday. Amid bouts of
self-conscious laughter, the two students helped demonstrate the steps
involved in pumping the stomach of a teen-ager who has overdosed on
drugs or alcohol. As is her style, Dutil pulls no punches when
describing the gruesome process. The audience winces as she explains the
way in which the pumping tube is inserted via a patient’s nose or mouth,
and the gravel-like texture of the raw black charcoal that patients have
to drink to help rid their stomachs of harmful substances.
“When a
patient comes into the ER, doctors look at that patient and decide to go
with either Plan A or a Plan B,” she said. “Plan A is for when a patient
feels sick, but will be all right, Plan B is for when a patient’s life
is at risk.”
Judging from
the audience reaction throughout the presentation, it was clear that
most of the students present were not interested in being a part of
either plan. But Dutil’s talk wasn’t just about what could happen to the
teen-age members of her audience who make the wrong choices. It also
covered what could happen to their friends and family members.
“Don’t ever
bring a drunken friend home and put them to bed,” she warned. “They can
stop breathing and die. Call 911 for help.”
Switching to
the subject of hallucinogens, such as acid, meth, and “magic mushrooms”,
she related another unsettling tale about a teen-age girl who took
crystal meth and hallucinated spiders crawling all over her body. Trying
to rid herself of the spiders, she began slicing her skin with a razor.
Like the girl in the first story, this one ended up with a multitude of
physical scars to go along with her mental and emotional ones. But one
of the strongest moments in the entire presentation came when Dutil
revisited her earlier story about “Bob”, the 15-year-old who drank too
much whiskey and died of alcohol poisoning.
“After Bob
was pronounced dead, we had to clean the body,’ she said. “As we cleaned
it, we were aware that his family was out in the waiting room. So we
cleaned up the charcoal and the blood, and then the mother came in and
took her son’s lifeless hand in hers. Bob’s father stood beside her and
Bob’s two older brothers stood at the foot of the bed. And then we heard
a noise in the doorway, and realized that we had forgotten all about
Bob’s little sister. She was standing in the doorway, eyes wide open,
expression blank. Then all of a sudden she let out a yell and ran over
to the bed and threw herself over her brother’s body, screaming,
‘Please, Bobby, don’t die! Don’t die!’”
As she nears
the end of the story, Dutil chokes up and has to pause for a moment to
regain her composure. When she does, she makes eye contact with an
audience whose members are also fighting back tears.
“Please,” she
told them. “Don’t ever do anything like this to you, your friends, or
your family.”
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